Marin Mommies presents another great guest article by Marin parent coach, infant/toddler sleep researcher, and family therapist Angelique Millette. She works throughout the Bay Area and across the country supporting families and helping them meet life's challenges. You can learn more about her and her services at www.angeliquemillette.com.
As I started writing this article, I received five phone calls, all from co-sleeping mothers who were beside themselves with fatigue and exhaustion. They were tearful as they told me how utterly and totally exhausted they were, and yet, each told me she felt conflicted about moving her child out of the family bed. This reminded me that a good article about transitioning one’s baby or toddler out of the family bed, must speak to the myriad emotions that both parents and children might feel as they make this change.
A friend asked me about my experience with this the other day, so I thought I'd pass it along here. This something is constipation. My son never really had a problem with it when he was little, since we made sure to feed him a good diet, until one fateful day. Of course we were on vacation, visiting friends down in Pacific Grove, when it happened. Doesn't it usually happen like that?
So one morning Trevor wakes up and instead of his usual happy two-year-old (at the time) self, he's cranky and crying and eventually seems to be in some physical distress. And because he's only two, he can't really tell us what the problem is. All he knows is that he's miserable. On our friends' recommendation we head down to the nearby urgent care clinic on Lighthouse Avenue in Monterey and fill out the paperwork with a crying toddler in the background. Of course this particular clinic doesn't take our otherwise pretty universally accepted health insurance. Of course not!
Every parent eventually faces the dilemma where they have to ask themselves, "Is my child too sick to go to school today?" How sick is too sick to go to school? That's the question addressed in a recent New York Times article by parent and physician Perri Klass, MD. The upshot of the article seems to be that kids with mild colds (no fevers, of course) are more or less OK to go to school, especially in light of all the germs already present in such settings. You'll have to read the article to get the whole story, of course.
That's the idea tossed out in a recent post on the Mommy Files blog on SFGate.com. Recent studies suggest that children in daycare build stronger immune systems by virtue of being around lots of other children, many of course with illnesses. Of course, medical research being what it is, some physicians disagree with that theory. Read the full post here, as well as the associated discussion (it's always lively on SFGate).
Marin Mommies is pleased to present another great guest article, this time by Mill Valley psychotherapist Lisa Nave, MA, MFT. Lisa specializes in working with parents, children, and families, and works from a holistic, integral psychotherapy model, which combines the best of western psychology with the best of the eastern wisdom traditions.
Today, we live in a technological society where much of our communication is virtual. Our society is more socially fragmented than it has ever been, with high divorce rates, disconnected suburban communities, and a lack of common values or even cultural rituals that keep us closely tied. In my private psychotherapy practice many of my clients have spoken of these issues over the years, and it is due to their distress that I decided to offer house calls as an optional service, if appropriate.
For issues such as parenting and child development, house calls may be the preferred method. There are several reasons for this:
Diaper maker Pampers is offering parents a free Dora the Explorer- or Diego-themed potty training kit. Each kit includes a pair of Easy Ups Trainers, coupons, stickers and coloring pages, step-by-step potty training tips, a progress chart, and Dora or Diego training trophy.
Order your free potty training kit at www.pampers.com. There’s a limit of one kit per household. We ordered one, since we’re currently engaged in the whole potty training thing, and we’ll let you know what it’s like when it shows up.
As you shop for Christmas gifts for your children, did you ever wonder, "How safe is this toy?" HealthyToys.org, a website run by the nonprofit Ecology Center organization, has released its second annual consumer guide to toxic chemicals in toys. On the site, you can search for or browse hundreds of popular toys by name, brand, and toy type, and find out how they tested for lead and other contaminants including bromide, cadmium, arsenic, and mercury. All of those chemicals are things we can probably all agree shouldn't be found in children's toys!
This holiday season, how about searching out toys that actually help inspire your children's creativity and imagination and help with their development? Here are a few tips from Meg Stiefvater, early childhood parenting coach for Parenting on the Run, to help you choose toys that will inspire and enable children's imaginitive play.
The holidays are just around the corner. Every ad space out there is trying to convince you to buy, buy, buy toys. Many games and toys entice parents and kids with the wow factor, but it is usually those wow factor toys that end up broken or left at the bottom of the toy chest as kids go back to those great toys that inspire creativity and imagination.
What are toys that enhance development and inspire creativity in children? Toys that hit a variety of developmental areas, are open ended, and can each and everyday offer a child a different way to use it, are materials you want to look for.
As you navigate the barrage of choices out there think about areas of a child’s development and toys that compliment each area.
The following list of developmental areas and matching toys should start you on your way to long lasting imaginative play:
As winter approaches, so does the dreaded "cold and flu season." Many people in the Bay Area turn to alternative medicine to help their families fight off illnesses and stay healthy. Are homeopathic remedies right for you and your family? This guest article by nationally certified homeopath Edi Pfeiffer, who recently opened an office in Corte Madera, explains many of the concepts of homeopathy and how it can be used to treat common illnesses. As always, the information in this article is not a substitute for advice or care from a health professional.
As cold and flu season begins, is there anything we can do to lessen the frequency and severity of our children’s acute illnesses? Certified Classical Homeopath Edi Pfeiffer of Corte Madera gives some great tips for building up our immune systems and outlines a few remedies that can make a big difference.